Misunderstanding, Miscommunications Between Husband and Wives….

A marriage can only be as good as the communication between the husband and wives. Good communication is vital to healthy marriage. As wives, we desire to have a close relationship with our husband, but, unfortunately, we sabotage it by what we say and how we say it.

Defensiveness seems to be the hardest thing for us. It comes from an attitude that says "My way is the best way." We don't listen to what each other has to say. Instead, we formulate our response while he/she is speaking. And the misunderstanding begins.

There a lot of time that husband says something that hurts the feeling of her wife and he done the same thing a thousand times, without any regard for he makes her wife feels. The wife decided to harden her heart. She will think that her husband doesn’t care so why should she even bother talking to him about it. Then miscommunication start.

This are the common reasons why husband and wives always have misunderstanding that cause to miscommunication.

Showing Respect is the way to avoid misunderstanding between husband and wife. Respect each other in though (the heart), word (your speech), and deed (your action).