Unfaithful husband/wife...

Why Do Men and Women Cheat?

What causes husbands and wives cheat, we also know quite a bit about the type of men and women who are likely to cheat…we called it Infidelity…basically when it comes to infidelity there are explanations given.

First... Spouse cheat because of the problems in their relationship…something missing, passion has faded, partners feel lonely, people find someone who treats them better or appreciates them more than their current spouse, and so on…..

Second… This explanation ignores the reason that people “give” for cheating and looks deeper into human nature…

Catching a cheating partner is difficult because cheaters have an affair advantage when it comes to infidelity. In fact, most infidelity goes undetected, or unproven, because the rules of the game tend to favor those who cheat….

Most people have strong desire to believe what partner has to say. Trusting a partner creates a sense of security and comfort. No one really wants to think that spouse may be lying, especially when it comes to infidelity. So, rather than assume the worst, it’s often easier to believe a “pleasant lie” than causes a faithful spouse the most pain.

And cheating spouse take advantage of this. Cheaters often exploit their partner’s desire to trust by telling their partners exactly what they want to hear (“I would never cheat you”)